For example.. maybe you have sex with people you don't love or you have a hard time actually being sexually attracted to people that you do love.
Maybe you feel like you make bad sexual decisions that don't have a lot of reason to them.
Or you feel like your mind controls your sexuality and doesn't let you be free and follow your desires.
Maybe you feel like your penis has this agenda of its own, that it’s out to destroy your relationship or distract you from your career and to lose focus.
What happens then is you're just going to disconnect and pull away.
Maybe you shut off your thinking capacity that gives you perspective and wisdom and long term goals and ideas.
Or you feel like your heart is a dangerous place because you don't want to get hurt and you'd rather just have sex with a certain type of person but not ever get emotionally attached.
What happens then is that you're not going to want to be present with your heart and all the amazing feelings that that entails.